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How To Befriend Your Ex-Spouse After Divorce

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A divorce isn’t always the ‘be all and end all’ of a relationship. A relationship can be defined in many different ways. A divorce ends a legal marriage. It takes a little time to get over the relationship. But you wouldn’t always want to cut contact with the person you married. Sometimes you still want to remain in touch. Your partner has been a big part of your life and you don’(more...)

Nikki Bella and John Cena Call It Quits Just Weeks Before Their Wedding

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Long time lovers Nikki Bella and John Cena have parted ways after six years together.
The couple got engaged back in April of 2017 while at Wrestlemania and were scheduled to wed on Cinco de Mayo.  Bella and Cena have been dating since 2012 and have definitely shaken up their fan bases with their splitting up.  It appears as though John was the instigator of the breakup which left Nikki completely heartbroken.  There are reports claiming (more...)

Breaking the Divorce News To My Son Was Both Traumatic & Transformative!

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The best approach to breaking the divorce news to your children!By Rosalind Sedacca, CDCI’ve faced many difficult moments in my life. But preparing to tell my son that I will be divorcing his father was absolutely one of the worst.He was innocent — a sweet eleven year-old boy who loved both his parents dearly. He didn’t deserve this.I struggled with anxiety for weeks. When should we tell him? What should we say?(more...)

Is It Wise To Date Someone Else During Your Divorce?

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Have you met someone and wanted to date him or her while you are still getting divorced? If your divorce proceeding is still going on, be cautious about dating. You may feel that it is time for you to enter into a new relationship after proceeding with a divorce or a separation. But it is a sensible decision to be out of the dating scene until the time your divorce comes through for a host of emotional, legal and (more...)

5 Signs That Indicate Your Relationship Should Be Over

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How do you know when it’s time to walk away? Relationship experts list the five signs that indicate you’re headed towards a breakup.
Plenty of Fish dating expert Shannon Smith and divorce attorney and relationship expert, Vikki Ziegler offer their opinions to Business Insider on when it’s time to call it quits.
1. Different Life Goals
Both Smith and Zielger believe it’s okay to have different life paths but if there (more...)

6 Break the Divorce News to the Kids Messages for Divorcing Parents

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By Rosalind Sedacca, CDCThe best approach to breaking the divorce news to your children!One of the most difficult conversations any parent will ever have is telling their children about their pending divorce. I know first-hand because many years ago I went through the experience. I fought and faced the overwhelming emotions. The deep gut-wrenching fear. The continuous anxiety. The incredible guilt. And the oppressive weight of shame.My son, after all, was innocent. A sweet, gentle soul who (more...)

What You Don’t Know About Divorcing As a Parent That Can Hurt Your Kids!

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Divorce catches kids in the middleJanuary is International Child-Centered Divorce Month – a time when divorce filings are highest: after the holidays at the start of the New Year.In recognition of ICCD Month, international Divorce Coach, author and trainer, Rosalind Sedacca, CDC, has gathered family-focused divorce professionals throughout world to give away complimentary ebooks, courses, videos, coaching services and other valuable tools to help parents: Make the best decisions regarding your children before, during and long after (more...)

Lessons About Celebrity Divorces & Co-Parenting!

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By Rosalind Sedacca, CDCIn today’s world Hollywood celebrities are major role models in our culture, especially to the younger generation. For that reason I keep an eye on the movie-star set to see what they’re doing in their relationships. It always makes for great conversation within the Child-Centered Divorce community.Too often the examples we see are poor ones. So many celebrity relationships end in ugly divorces and child-custody suits. Happily, however, there are some (more...)

Managing Anger When You’re Triggered by Divorce or Relationship Issues!

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By Rosalind Sedacca, CCTWe all get angry when we believe we are being wronged, misunderstood or unjustly accused. It’s a natural reaction to circumstances that put us on the defensive. For many, divorce is the perfect storm that triggers all our anger issues. When we’re parents and cannot manage our anger, it can take over our lives and affect the well-being of our children. Focusing our anger on our divorcing spouse can fuel the fire (more...)

Do You Have an Anger Or Conflict Control Problem? Ask Yourself These Key Question and Find Out!

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By Rosalind Sedacca, CLCWe all get angry when we believe we are being wronged, misunderstood or unjustly accused. It’s a natural reaction to circumstances that put us on the defensive. But when we cannot identify or manage our anger, it can take over our lives and affect the wellbeing of those close to us. When our anger is focused on our relationship partners or a divorcing spouse, it can reach dangerous levels – especially when there are (more...)